when to ditch monolith for microservices tho

hey everyon, im workin on a project that's startin to get a bit unwieldy as a monolith. we're hittin some scailin and developmint speed bottlenex. ive bin readin a lot about microservics, but it also seems like a lot of addd complixity. for tho whove mad the switch, what wer the key indicaters that told you it was tim to brak up the monilith? was it a specific tecnhical problim, a tim structur issu, or somthing els entirely? curius to hir your axperians