so, how do you deal with massive binary stuff in a relational database, anyway? like, what's the best approach

hey everyone im working on a system that needs to store user-uploaded images and videos were currently using postgresql and im wondering about the best way to handle these large binary objects should i store them directly as blobs in the database or is it better to store them on a separate file system or object storage and just keep the links in the db whats your experience with performance scalability and manageability with either approach