Message queues for inter-microservice communication: Which is best?

hey folks, ive been thinking a lot about how microservices talk to each other, especially when we need to decouple services and handle spikes in load. weve used kafka in the past for high-throughput event streaming, but im wondering about other options like rabbitmq or even cloud-native solutions like sqs. whats your go-to message queue for general inter-microservice communication, and whats the trade-offs you consider. when do you opt for one over the other?