So, when should you actually consider using CQRS in your app?

ive been seeing command query responsibility segregation c q r s mentioned more often in scaling discussions. the idea of separating read and write models seems powerful for optimizing each independently, but it also adds complexity. what are the key indicators that your system might benefit from c q r s? are there specific types of applications or scaling bottlenecks where c q r s truly shines, or is it often an over-engineered solution for common problems? curious to hear about your experiences