so, when should you actually start using CQRS it's not always obvious but usually, it makes sense when you have a

Hey everyone, I've been chewing on the idea of CQRS lately. It really seems like a neat way to split up reading and writing stuff, especially when things get complicated. But, like, when do you actually decide to go for it? Are there clear signs in a big old monolith, or even if you're already using microservices, that make you think, "Yeah, CQRS is the way to go"? Or is it more about planning ahead and setting things up that way from the start? I'm super curious to hear about your experiences and how you decide when to use it.