async task processing: which message queue strategy is best?

hey everyone im setting up a new service that will involve a lot of background processing think image resizing report generation and sending out bulk emails ive been looking at rabbitmq sqs and kafka but im feeling a bit overwhelmed by the choices each seems to have its own pros and cons depending on the use case for scenarios where guaranteed delivery and ordered processing are critical kafka seems strong but for simpler decoupled task queues rabbitmq or sqs feel more straightforward what are your go to solutions for async task processing and what factors drive your decision between different message queue systems