choosing between Kafka and RabbitMQ

hey everyone im workin on a new project that involves a lot of event streaming and async processing were checkin out message queue solutions and weve narrowed it down to apache kafka and rabbitmq they both seem powerfull but they have different philosophies kafka feels more like a distributed log made for high throughput and stream processing and rabbitmq is more of a traditional message broker with cool routing and queuing stuff for those whove used both what made you pick one over the other in real life are there specific things one is clearly better at im especially curious about how much work they are to run and keep workin